Do we do enough things? Do we have diverse interests that are unique and multi-faceted? Or are we constantly stuck in the same ole rut, going to the same clubs, church, restaurants, always at the same ole time?
Do we socialize with the same friends, some we don’t even like enough to call friends, instead they are more like associates. Even if you like the people you hang with, are they open enough to try something daring this weekend, or next month? No, you don’t need to do that, you have enough fun already, right? If your answer is yes to that question, you need to think about whether you are limiting yourself and/or your hanging partners.
And suppose you don’t have any friends, or want to meet new ones, or praise the Lord!, connect onto a new romance? Are you being flexible in your approach to meeting people? No matter what your age, or race, or self-confident level, or attractiveness number 1-10, there is something that you want to do but nobody else you know wants to do it or you think they don’t do that here where I live or you are just too afraid to, and here I’ll let you pick one, (a-look stupid, b-appear nerdy, c-show your lack of skill or knowledge, d-have your friends find out you like doing something they might disapprove of, e-all of the above) -----Or is it just too white and nerdy?
Do we socialize with the same friends, some we don’t even like enough to call friends, instead they are more like associates. Even if you like the people you hang with, are they open enough to try something daring this weekend, or next month? No, you don’t need to do that, you have enough fun already, right? If your answer is yes to that question, you need to think about whether you are limiting yourself and/or your hanging partners.And suppose you don’t have any friends, or want to meet new ones, or praise the Lord!, connect onto a new romance? Are you being flexible in your approach to meeting people? No matter what your age, or race, or self-confident level, or attractiveness number 1-10, there is something that you want to do but nobody else you know wants to do it or you think they don’t do that here where I live or you are just too afraid to, and here I’ll let you pick one, (a-look stupid, b-appear nerdy, c-show your lack of skill or knowledge, d-have your friends find out you like doing something they might disapprove of, e-all of the above) -----Or is it just too white and nerdy?
Listen up , if you have friends or even if you don’t, if you have someone special or even if you don’t, if you like yourself or ESPECIALLY if you don’t, GO DO THAT thing you really wanted to do, or at least wanted to try.
You may have to drive a little, or pay a little stipend, or risk being uncomfortable at first, or even be ashamed that you liked it so much, whatever. There is one thing I know is true.
The people you meet will be glad to see you.
You may have to drive a little, or pay a little stipend, or risk being uncomfortable at first, or even be ashamed that you liked it so much, whatever. There is one thing I know is true.
The people you meet will be glad to see you.
